When does your right to roleplay on LOTC get permanently revoked? [TW]

[Scuba 277]

17 hours ago, itdontmatta said:

Hi again,

 

Upon further review of the evidence and comments made, we have decided to give Charlemagne a permanent (Player Conduct Violations) ban for his behavior in the screenshots Muna and MissToni provided. Although he has apologized and offered that he has changed, we cannot provide a platform for his redemption. 

 

In two days, it will have been 10 years since I joined LotC. I endured several different iterations of the LotC community, and I have been both on the receiving and giving end of really shitty, toxic behavior. I thought that since I matured and learned from my mistakes that anyone else could. When Charlemagne appealed, and there was support on his appeal, I thought there was a possibility that he changed. While he was back, I saw that change and I thought that it was okay. I didn’t come to think that even though he possibly changed, his behavior could not be redeemed on our platform.

 

There is a threshold that cannot be crossed, and we see that in this thread. I personally underestimated how much this community has changed in the ten years I’ve been here. I reflected on what I had posted, and I started to have a weird feeling about it. It wasn’t a call that I was 100% confident in. 

 

I am sorry, specifically to Muna and MissToni that we mishandled this. 

 

Lord of the Craft serves to offer a place that people can escape some of the realities of their real life situation. My topmost priority has been to encourage a safe and welcoming environment for everyone. Please hold me to that. If I cannot offer that to you, the community, then please ask me to resign and I will. My next step is to implement standards for the roleplay server communities we advertise in our public discord, and set rules & guidelines for conduct we expect on discord.

 

Thank you, and I will not let you down again.

 

 

Alex

 

I wish we could perma-ban you!

[UnusualBrit 1732]

46 minutes ago, Gridlock said:

If something an internet troll told you five years ago seriously traumatized you, you should not be on the internet. 

Kids these days have not been in enough CoD MW2 xbox lobbies and it shows.

 

On a serious note, what he said is bad and all. But it's a long time ago and you decided to unban him. You should have either stood by that decision or not have unbanned him at all. Huge fault on the staff in this situation, regardles of which side of the fence you are on. It goes to show once more how the LOTC staff are set up entirely wrong. Justice should not know personal preferences and it clearly does on this server. It may be time to review the way we have this server moderated.

 

weird take bro

[Diogen 1433]

1 hour ago, Gridlock said:

If something an internet troll told you five years ago seriously traumatized you, you should not be on the internet. 

Kids these days have not been in enough CoD MW2 xbox lobbies and it shows.

 

On a serious note, what he said is bad and all. But it's a long time ago and you decided to unban him. You should have either stood by that decision or not have unbanned him at all. Huge fault on the staff in this situation, regardles of which side of the fence you are on. It goes to show once more how the LOTC staff are set up entirely wrong. Justice should not know personal preferences and it clearly does on this server. It may be time to review the way we have this server moderated.

 

then go back to ur cod lobbies freak lmfao

wrong server for that

[Diogen 1433]

the freaks of this server rly are doing us a favor and outing themselves for us in this post

[Jentos 4639]

1 hour ago, Gridlock said:

If something an internet troll told you five years ago seriously traumatized you, you should not be on the internet. 

Kids these days have not been in enough CoD MW2 xbox lobbies and it shows.

 

On a serious note, what he said is bad and all. But it's a long time ago and you decided to unban him. You should have either stood by that decision or not have unbanned him at all. Huge fault on the staff in this situation, regardles of which side of the fence you are on. It goes to show once more how the LOTC staff are set up entirely wrong. Justice should not know personal preferences and it clearly does on this server. It may be time to review the way we have this server moderated.

 

Step down !!!! @Gridlock (discernable lack of irony) 

[spicii 952]

are we really surprised when the admin team (itdontmatta) hold such a personal vendetta against certain members (free gecko) of the community and insist on keeping them banned when, in comparison to others who are 'liked' or a 'friend' of certain people, their crimes are nothing. just a tiny bit abstract how we pick and choose who the rules apply to in general on lotc - of course it has been an issue for the majority of my time on lotc that i have seen.

so glad i barely play this server anymore.

my last straw was when ya'll decided it would be a good idea to clout chase and futher publicise someone's death by posting a generic tribute only HOURS after they had passed away. not that many actually cared a week later when the so called 'trend' died down and everyone was done trying to virtue signal! boggles me what goes through the staff teams and others mind sometimes

[sashimichopped 3006]

7 minutes ago, Scuba said:

Bro.... you think some internet insults is the worst thing on this world? Internet are internet words. If that is traumatizing for someone, you need to re-evaluate your life. You got triggered? Woah, that is pretty cringe.   

 

If you have any children in your later life and if they are dealing with the same thing that is happening here, come back and comment again and see if your mind has changed in regards to telling someone to begin re-evaluating their life and say it can not be traumatizing.

[Xarkly 10239]

19 minutes ago, Scuba said:

HAHAHA SO CRINGE, go get a life 

 

you know this server is pg 13 right? dont get caught lying on ur app 

[Diogen 1433]

17 minutes ago, Scuba said:

Bro.... you think some internet insults is the worst thing on this world? Internet are internet words. If that is traumatizing for someone, you need to re-evaluate your life. You got triggered? Woah, that is pretty cringe.   

 

whose child is this lol

[Gridlock 713]

1 hour ago, satinkira said:

yeah bro, kids these days getting traumatised over r*pe threats and death threats, so soft of them ngl. I remember the good old days in COD lobbies when people were exposed to that shit all the time and weren’t soft!! so much better

If you actually think someone on a minecraft server is going to rape or murder you I do think that you need serious help.

 

Again, I'm not saying it's okay to say that but kids talk mad trash online that's just a reality. If you're going to take everything that is said on the internet seriously you shouldn't be on it. If you genuinely feel traumatised by some random stranger online saying dumb shit like that with not even the sleightest chance of it being a serious threat to your safety, you need help.

[satinkira 3099]

4 minutes ago, Gridlock said:

If you actually think someone on a minecraft server is going to rape or murder you I do think that you need serious help.

 

did I say that?

[Gridlock 713]

10 minutes ago, satinkira said:

 

did I say that?

 

Did I say the world would be better if kids were threatened regularly?

[___siren___ 361]

Honestly, idc what age they were or how edgy they were. Rape, even threatening rape was and will never be okay and should/can not be played down to "being in an edgy phase". Most importantly it does not have a place in any situation. Not in real life and not online.

It's harassment. It's psychologically assault and should be punished accordingly and other communities have to be made aware of it. (ToS List)

[envy 236]

the people defending his threats are actually disgusting. i ******* hate it here

[subatomic 717]

45 minutes ago, spicii said:

are we really surprised when the admin team (itdontmatta) hold such a personal vendetta against certain members (free gecko) of the community and insist on keeping them banned when, in comparison to others who are 'liked' or a 'friend' of certain people, their crimes are nothing. just a tiny bit abstract how we pick and choose who the rules apply to in general on lotc - of course it has been an issue for the majority of my time on lotc that i have seen.

so glad i barely play this server anymore.

my last straw was when ya'll decided it would be a good idea to clout chase and futher publicise someone's death by posting a generic tribute only HOURS after they had passed away. not that many actually cared a week later when the so called 'trend' died down and everyone was done trying to virtue signal! boggles me what goes through the staff teams and others mind sometimes

so true free gecko