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About ElvenMommaHacker

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    Mia Asclepius | Maeyrn | Haelun'or Square
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    Mali'Thill | Mali'Ame | Ground

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  1. I’ve been gone for about a month and idk what the **** is happening anymore. This server be wilding.

    1. Spoons



  2. Idk is it just me or has RP communities in general just become a **** ton more toxic? Realized some of that salt was rubbing off on me recently 😬

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    2. Ark


      I’ve had the opposite experience personally, now feel like now that the average maturity on the server is so much better than it was when I first started playing. 

    3. ElvenMommaHacker


      Yeah I think is kinda whack because for the most part I’d say the few people I run with aren’t really toxic, but I found the RPing community at large seems more toxic than when I first started back in like 2011, but I just keep hearing so much stories of people dealing with toxic stuff that it makes me feel bad, but I just feel like a lot more people are just kinda playing for whatever little power they can get rather than just tryna have fun. A lot of the time I see IC and OOC clash with each other so it just kinda ruins the experience imo. 

    4. Lojo613


      Its about the same level of toxicity as it was in 2014


  3. Offering three different toe pics for Azdrazi, please contact me.

  4. I feel like these statements are both correct and wrong at the same time, I honestly enjoy my experience more when I’m interacting with people I know but sometimes I find some people will try drag you into stuff that you don’t wanna get involved with or don’t wanna deal with.
  5. Mia a Cleric in training readies a Mace
  6. Mia would huff at the news, seemingly relieved “I knew it so Greed would take them, hence why Tahariae offered me that chance to escape it. I will forever thankful for it.” she’d quietly comment to herself, looking over her right shoulder for a moment ”Though these markings will remain for sometime it will seem.” And with that she ponders if Dael had actually managed to fight of the Shades, deciding to consult some cards.
  7. ((MC name: ElvenMommaHacker )) Name: Mia Asclepius Vote for Okarir’tir: ( ) Alluin Seregon ( ) Elrion Visaj ( ) Celiasil (xx) Storm Elibar’acal
  8. Is Oren being cancelled or something lol

    1. ElvenMommaHacker


      Nope, being baited with forum titles.

    2. Urara


      oren’s always being cancelled bby

  9. This just reminds me of LittleBigPlanet Lore wtf.
  10. In all seriousness, I think this a good message but as AstriaS and Xarkly said it is a bit more nuanced than a message like this seemingly describes. Though, as much as I love to scream about upper management being the cause of whatever issue is happening, I don’t frankly believe they have a part in it. I tend to isolate myself from most groups mainly because on this server once you make a name or have one given to you, you are gonna be stuck with the rep you’ve manage to garner, good or bad, true or false. I found out recently one of my friends found out he was **** talked and the only reason I can muster in my mind is because he had interactions with a certain player, and I find that just low key pathetic, to be driven to a point where you’d actively **** talk someone because they had might be friends with someone you don’t like. I feel this also drives into another issue, I was looking at a post earlier today which was the ABCs of RP by The Lion. In the list he put ‘Refrain from engaging OOCly with LotC’. Which I feel rings true, some of my best RP comes when I barely OOCly interact with the person I’ve been RPing with, I remember a friend I made early on in LotC, we’d be able to pretty much make an adventure out of any situation and had really great chemistry between our characters that allowed us to pretty much RP until one of us had something IRL pop up. But when he had to focus on study I ended up getting into various groups to find some more RP and I feel this lead me to get more insight onto how things tend to run on LotC, I interacted with theses groups more OOCly than I have most other groups and it just opened my eyes on how a lot of people tend to be more driven OOCly than ICly. With this I feel it creates this storm of toxicity, because people OOCly want their character/group to succeed in their endeavors which is fine, it means you’re invested in some form for the RP that is directly happening to you. But it really becomes an issue when people will stoop to OOC means in order to protect their RP/Group from having any sort of bump that could possibly lead to it ending or going through a really drastic change. This curbs a lot of interesting RP that could happen, for a group to fall and having to pick itself back up or just completely being wiped out and being literal history in the server, but that can seem a lot to ask of someone who has possibly invested months on this server to build something up. But this causes issues as I know a lot of groups would just rather deal with the situation in an OOC manner, be it trying to get rulings from staff members to have certain things go their way, disregarding rules, or just simply outright attempting to destroy someone on an OOC level through harassment, lying, or even possibly targeting them ICly due to an OOC grudge. Knowing alot of some of the happenings on this server because people tell me some of the stuff that has happened behind the scenes (or even myself being apart of it), really causes me to lose drive for LotC, and I literally just came onto this server to have a bit of fun, to get an experience that games like Skyrim could never provide, the ability to interact with a living, breathing world but after finding out all I did it took me awhile to realize that I’d much rather hang out with what friends I’ve made and just follow along whatever adventure we can find and avoid the toxic elements on this server. The reason I just find this so frustrating is because it is pretty simple to deal with someone you don’t like OOCly. Just don’t interact with them. I had a incident awhile back where someone mentioned IC information about my character in a Discord which I feel is meta gaming because it enables meta gaming to happen. I told them how I felt and I will admit I was pretty pissed about the whole situation because I just felt it was really scummy to do such a thing, they refused my requests to delete the messages and tried twisting the situation into it being my fault because I didn’t ask ‘nicely’ when I was literally talking about how I was laying on the floor after saying how I considered what they did meta gaming. In response to this I just simply blocked the person, reported them because they told me to and tried my best to keep IC/OOC interactions with them to a minimum. Sometimes I’d rant about it and kinda laugh about the situation because of how it ended unfolding, but I didn’t actively and intentionally attempt to **** on their being because of this slight, I just left it. However, AstriaS is right in saying that staff need to step up in dealing with matters, especially something like toxicity but I think the biggest issues is when we try to police this I don’t know how the reactions would be by the community if we did something like that. I think we already have a problem of corruption in staff where if we did justifiably deal with someone who did something, can easily hand wave about how LotC staff is corrupt and the kick/ban was bullshit. But I might be overthinking it, and it really might be just a simple matter of making sure reports are correctly dealt with and we just need to rebuild confidence between staff and player because it is really at an all time low with alot of the events that have happened last year and this year. To make a really messy point, that I shows I need to learn how to write better, clear. I think we all need to deal with toxicity better, staff more so. Remember that this is just a game and if you don’t like someone just cut your interactions from them and try keep trash talking to a minimum. Try find out the best way for you to have fun on this server and stick with it. If anyone wants to talk to me about anything, how you’ve been feeling or just about games, movies, shows, etc or something feel free to message me over the game or Discord at Pup#0428.
  11. Tbh if someone wrote up a system and all parties agree to using said system there shouldn't be any issue as we have the cooperative RP rules. And allowing people to pick a mixture of options how they wish to go about combat wouldn't hurt.
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