Ok, after reading the above comments I realise there are too many points to answer in depth, and some were not made in a civilised fashion. That said, I will answer a few major points.
1. Worries about powergaming and being a PvP group.
The majority of us are not PvPers, although we do have some as we need a military to deal with raiders and invading armies if any. We are not a military group, not even at the start, and we are more dedicated to keeping the peace in our lands rather than raiding others. That said, we really don't like people coming to our lands and looking for trouble; should we need to we are not completely averse to fighting.
As for powergaming, while there are some people who are comparatively new to RP, our group mainly consists of RP-oriented players from our previous servers. We despise 'pure PvPers' at least as much as the rest of the community does, and the aggressiveness of PvPers is in fact one of the reasons our previous server (which is an RP/PvP one) declined and we left.
2. Involvement in lore and politics
We are completely ditching our old lore which was meant for our previous servers, and those would remain on our site but be archived. We are also making a new founding story which will be compatible with lore on LoTC.
As for politics, we plan to remain active observers for a time being - ie watch how server politics work deep down but not completely sit it out and be isolated. We aim to have 2 pacts formed ASAP, but remain essentially observing and should we participate in wars they would mainly be defensive.
3. Our website
We are not going to post a link to a site yet nor would we officially confirm or deny any links posted by other players. It is meant to be a private site for our group, and when we feel the site is ready for our time on LoTC we would post the link. There are some who may or may not have googled the link already, in which case good job on your googling skills.
We have decided to restrict access to our site at least for the time being to avoid any further confusion, and all members not part of our group would be removed unless they have a good reason to be on here due to the recent attitude of some players. Considering its a private site we think we have the right to remove any non-involved personnel so to speak. If you have anything to ask, just PM us here.
Since our site is currently also in a transitional period, it is not ready for LoTC use yet; and there are threads which cannot be seen from an outsider's perspective which means that you won't have a complete picture from our site anyway. Therefore I will not respond to any points involving our site.
4. Threats about razing our lands and slaughtering our people
See #1. We also plan to make alliances.
If you have any points in previous posts that you feel I haven't answered, please PM me and I will deal with them if they were not made in toxic posts.
I won't be leading the group due to being busy IRL, and we are currently transitioning power within our council. Due to being burnt out by the recent turn of events I have decided to step down more quickly than I expected. If you have any further constructive criticism, advice or enquiries please direct them to TheShadower7 (and CC me if you wish to), who will read them and process them as quickly as possible; if you have any further derogatory comments, threats or insults please PM me with them, I will report and then delete them. No need to clog up the thread either way.