BANNING MINORS WILL NOT SOLVE THE PROBLEM. The problem isn't age, the problem is people.
So lets say we make the server 18+. Then what? People will still sexualize characters, people will still harass others, but hey. They were legal.
Not to mention making the server 18+ implies that things of a sexual nature are allowed. Isn't the whole point that we don't want that to happen? Instead, it opens a flood gate of people who think it's okay.
Real talk, I am terrified to turn eighteen. If I am already targeted and sexualized as a teen and minor, it's only going to get worse once I am of "legal age." And that's both horrifying and revolting.
This isn't an LotC problem, this is a humanity problem.
So then you ask: How do we fix this? You can't. I saw someone say it, I think it was @mika1278, that FTB should be banned altogether. I agree. If you think that whatever happens shouldn't be emoted. . . then you probably shouldn't be doing that.
What happened to that post some years back about different ways to rp a child being born? They wrote this whole thing with references to the aspects as well, but it never really stuck, which is sad to me.
I don't know about you all, but if my characters decide to have kids, mitosis. It's just going to spawn in at age 10. No questions asked, no questions answered.