Aerinyes

Yes, in fact for people we are close or friends with, its preferred that we reference rather than accept.

Friend or not we can still deny. As a good friend of mine IRL found out! :D

Well I spoke to Native about it months ago, and he said it was up to the individual characters/player to take the myth and use it how they wish. I remember RPing with an orc who acted like a gentleman (spoke in proper common and all that) and whenever he lost his temper, he 'blamed' it on the curse.

Most of them double as guards/military and are focused on that part.

I'm glad you're having fun at least with it. Thats the entire reason behind it. As long as the players are staying IC, its all good though :)

Sythie's fun to play. She's usually pretty reasonable and caring. But a switch gets flipped when she feels insulted. But that might be because she's 145 and a youngling :D

First Dark Elf on the council and the you...

You should!