I do think there is a time to advocate for change (see: Josh's removal, that seemed against the odds)
It's mostly pick and choose your battles though.
Definitely strive for change, and if change doesn't come, leave.
This has the same energy as when you called me a 'drama hungry pig' for being worried that my 4 year old character was included in a nobility matchmaking romantic spreadsheet and despite being 4 was listed as 'available'