I don't want to enter this discussion as I don't want to embroil myself in the drama, but assuming someone hasn't changed simply because they do not move from their niche community is stupid, we all cultivate connections and relationships with people whether positive or negative and when this takes place for years I don't exactly expect people to be able to cast away all of that to then throw themselves into a different community. Again I do not condone any of the actions or things saids in a negative way to anyone but I had to just add this bit as it felt as a bit of an insult not only to Charlemagne in this case, but to the people fighting the current war. A lot ofdrama does come from conflict but that is a side-effect that cannot be avoided, if people wish to avoid it then join a community that isn't likely to receive any.