Well... I returned to RP for a bit, and think I figured out exactly why I went on my Hiatus in the first place. Apparently I don't get a damn saying in what or who I get to RP with. If that's the case, guess it's time for me to return to my break.
I say that if there's a fundamentally (unanimously, completely) dumb rule, you should ignore it and go about your business as if it didn't exist. If someone tries to persecute you for it, you can argue you stance due to having logic and reason backing you up