I dislike the way this was handled, I would also be annoyed if something I put that much time and effort into was just taken away from me -the same way Vaq felt when he was not getting anything out of coding.
Perhaps if you asked for some people to be given more responsibility, so that major changes could be made without the consent of Availer, this could have been avoided. He is the founder and did put a lot of work into the community. I personally found him down to earth with an apparent love for the server, I hope his post is a sign that he misses this community and hopefully something can be worked out.