At the start of Vailor the location wasn't decided yet, we had a temporary location for a few days, we were deciding whether we should move to a new location or not. It actually had not been decided yet.
If you asked for perms then we would have given you perms to the region, I've been online when you have been but you never messaged me at all for permission to the grove. There's three people who are owners to the region, you could have messaged anyone to ask who the owners were and then asked for perms. It's an easy thing to sort out, I don't see the need to complain about it.
You don't have to be on Ker'vuln all the time, everyone has IRL responsibilities and wants to play other characters and so on. There is nothing wrong with that! Everyone knows that! I've been around the grove a lot, like most days but I have not seen you at all. You don't have to be around all the time, but you could RP a bit more there and talk with druids and dedicants.
You didn't have to make a post about this, you could've just messaged us to talk! And it would've been sorted out!