I don't sugarcoat things. Lol. If you want me to outline my message with unicorns and butterflies, I will. But it won't change the message. It's not my style.
It's not that it was blunt, it was actually just not thought out in the slightest. Re-read it, you made it sound like an attack on the community. Can't handle LoTC because someone doesn't like foreplay? Lolwut? Go watch disney with your teddy? Wut? o.o