A Look From My Perspectives....

[LatzMomo 2088]

Why are you so worried about what teenagers on the internet think? People are going to hate you, or find reason to hate you regardless if you've changed or not. The only thing I'd advise you to do is ignore the haters and find people are worth your time, and would enjoy your company. If they want to shittalk you and be dicks to you, then they aren't worth their energy dealing with. No matter how many assholes out there, there's always decent people to look for so go find them

Why did this piss me off so much? I think it's because I interpreted "Ignore the haters and find people worth your time." to mean that you don't think other people are worth your time and you think that you're better than them, if you could clarify and perhaps choose your words more carefully in the future, i'd appreciate it, because after all, as a senior member of the server and someone as passionate as you, I think it's important that you help players that are "not worth your time" become worth your time instead of complaining about them.

[Rethai 163]

I didn't shoot into depression at an earlier time because of my ban. LOL. I became a tad more toxic due to it.. That is what I was getting at.

[Rethai 163]

What I have to say may be taken as a sour pill to swallow and believe me when I say that nothing that I say is meant in any way, shape or form as a way to poke fun at you. Trust me when I say that you're not being cyber bullied on Lord of the Craft, what many people here perceive as cyber bullying nowadays is simply just people trying to have a laugh at someone else's expense. Is it a **** thing to do? Yeah, is it cyber bullying? Hardly. The best thing to do in this sort of scenario is simply to laugh it off and keep on walking down the road, will they continue? Not for long if you don't give them a reaction. You do not need to continuously make these threads, because it seems that you are desperately clawing onto the hopes of friendship and if you need to claw for them, they aren't real friends. I am certain you do not need the appraisal or the understanding of a lot of the people on the server, simply put you shouldn't care what these people think of you and only what your closest friends think, they will be brutely honest with you. 

 

Most importantly, it's not about what other's think of you that you should be worried about but how you think about yourself.

  Sorry, I stopped reading with the "You aren't being cyber-bullied". Ok Sky.. I'm trying to find words to say this nicely.. Let me just give a list of what is repeated to me on a daily basis, from different people. I'm subbing words so I dont have a bunch of *****

 

   "Flip flap you. I hate flipping N-Word like yourself. I hope you rot in hell"

  "Go kill yourself.. Nobody Flipping likes you"

" I hope you burn in hell.. Never come back to Lotc you flipping N-Word"

  "IF you ever come back to Lotc, I will flipping DDOS you flipping N-word"

Then theres more of the basic Go kill yourself, you're worthless, etc etc etc. Thats being bullied online. Mash those two words together and you get.......

 

 

 

Cyber-bullied.

 

 

 

EDIT : I've made 2 threads about this. Including this one.. Sorry about that. This thread also went in a different path as my other one did.

[Sky 0]

At least give me the courtesy that I gave you and read through my entire post, what I said is that you aren't being cyber bullied on Lord of the Craft, if what you say is what actually gets sent to you and is through any medium of the server, then by all means send reports to a moderator or admin. If it's through Skype then block their sorry arses and simply take in a deep breath, because what you listed isn't something that only happens to you over Skype and I am not saying that as a "Shut up your worries are meaningless" more so to explain that when the children who said that to you, have said it so many times that it genuinely lost all meaning to them and lets be frank here, people who genuinely mean that **** are just childish and have found comfort in the fact that online anonymity is a thing. 

[Cyndikate 2303]

Why did this piss me off so much? I think it's because I interpreted "Ignore the haters and find people worth your time." to mean that you don't think other people are worth your time and you think that you're better than them, if you could clarify and perhaps choose your words more carefully in the future, i'd appreciate it, because after all, as a senior member of the server and someone as passionate as you, I think it's important that you help players that are "not worth your time" become worth your time instead of complaining about them.

No, it's not meant to sound pompous. I encourage people to change their ways, but it's emotionally draining to constantly attempt to appease the views of people on the internet when that such energy is better used improving yourself. Be yourself, and focus on finding the right people who like you for who you are, and pay less attention to the assholes who find pleasure in treating you poorly. Don't let others get to you, and you'll enjoy your experience more.

[Rethai 163]

At least give me the courtesy that I gave you and read through my entire post, what I said is that you aren't being cyber bullied on Lord of the Craft, if what you say is what actually gets sent to you and is through any medium of the server, then by all means send reports to a moderator or admin. If it's through Skype then block their sorry arses and simply take in a deep breath, because what you listed isn't something that only happens to you over Skype and I am not saying that as a "Shut up your worries are meaningless" more so to explain that when the children who said that to you, have said it so many times that it genuinely lost all meaning to them and lets be frank here, people who genuinely mean that **** are just childish and have found comfort in the fact that online anonymity is a thing. 

Not here to have a discussion, although after reading it I will be clear with anything else I write where I'm being "Attacked". Obviously I didn't write down word for word what is said to me, but in the long run I'd like to gain more supportive comments rather than "Go gas yourself you Flipping Jew." Agreed?

[Sky 0]

I am genuinely confused of the purpose of this thread then, if not for a discussion then what for? I can agree that more supportive comments are needed, but no one here has told you to gas yourself nor called you a jew, again I feel this is all from Skype and again I will say, block those arse-holes and move on, don't look over advise being given and push it away, because you made the thread for a reason and for one reason or another people are wanting to give you advise, as well as make comments on it. You don't want this to become a discussion so this will be my final post on the matter then.

 

Getting harassed in-game, LotC TeamSpeak or the forums? Screenshot, archive and send to a moderator or an admin privately to be dealt with.

 

Getting harassed on Skype, Steam or [insert medium outside of LotC]? Block them and if need be, report them to the software company (most things have a little report button).

 

Despite what you may think, most people around here are more likely to forgive and forget naturally over time, so the best thing for you to do right now is surround yourself with people who actually care about who you are.

[mitto 2312]

Getting harassed in-game, LotC TeamSpeak or the forums? Screenshot, archive and send to a moderator or an admin privately to be dealt with.

 

Getting harassed on Skype, Steam or [insert medium outside of LotC]? Block them and if need be, report them to the software company (most things have a little report button).

 

All though I have an extremely neutral outlook and you AG, a lot of the people who have spoken poorly about you have used recent events as evidence.

 

You may have created a bad reputation in the past via mistakes, I personally believe in forgetting the past. Though it seems to a lot of people that you aren't actively trying to change their opinions.

 

Just saying, it's not my opinion. Just putting it out there.

[Gunner 775]

Moved to the Archive. It shall be sorted into the appropriate category shortly.