gf cheated on me

[lemontide331 1615]

hey so a week has past since my last thread 

 

so i took the advice and i went for a girl, yea, ok she wasnt the best looking but i took the advice from starting low. i met a girl at my work and we exchange numbers then for the first day we just texting like about what we do etc. everything great, next day we go cinema together then our relationship came official. honestly i didnt think id actually love her nd i have never loved any1 truly before but it felt so great, we grew attached to each other, she sleep my house every day it was so good. i tried to get her on minecraft but yea didnt work out xD but thats ok :) i think time move on right? 

 

this was basically our life anyway

 

so happy, even we did no have much money, we just enjoyed life pure. it was honest magical

 

but i noticed when i went work she'd happen to say she not well just 2day ago but she seemed fine, when i went she stay at my house then i come back and she asking me to go place with her.. i didnt think much of it serious. 

 

but then..

 

my girlfriend and father this morning set me down to tell me they had a 4 day affair. they only did it  2times they said, and after the second time they say they both felt extremely guilty and mortified at their actions. they been wanting  tell me since then but didn't have the hearts. i kinda knew they got on well, they bonded over many shared interests (like talk about game thrones), but i never saw this coming.
i feel completely sick. i haven't eaten hardly anything since they told me. i haven't officially broken up with her yet, but it is obvious as I haven't responded to any of the texts/calls she's sent since she went home short after tell. when they first told me and after it had sank in, i left and haven't said a word to anyone outside of work since. I've been a total ghost to my whole family and friend group.
my dad and I are very close. for my whole life I have looked up to him. he and my mom divorced when I was a teenager ( i live step mom but no speak to really )) but they have been very friendly to each other which made the process so much easier. i want forgive my dad. but if my girlfriend had cheated on me with another person, i would easily cut them both off. and in a weird way my dad has hurt me so much more by doing this than she has. i could get over a cheating girlfriend. But my relationship with my father, a relationship I cherished, is destroyed. and it's his fault.
my question is this: should i forgive my father? how can i forgive him? should i tell my mom or brother? would I be cruel for completely cutting him off which is what my heart it telling me to do?

please help like.. this is first time i get a girl i was just all so happy, getting confidence etc. now this. help me and idk howv to react to dad..

[Textarea 719]

This website is for a minecraft server. :)

[lemontide331 1615]

Just now, Omar Grimmer'Lak said:

This website is for a minecraft server. :)

this is off topic section

[Kiiwi 1440]

Why not.. GET A BOYFRIEND!? Heard they are ripe this season, I got mine

[Heff 2460]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jewish_religious_terrorism

 

 

[winterblood 11181]

sounds like a you problem

[lev 627]

Honestly chuck you need to take a break and do something worthwhile with your life./

 

[lemontide331 1615]

40 minutes ago, TheMostKawaliioftheAlices said:

Why not.. GET A BOYFRIEND!? Heard they are ripe this season, I got mine

u female ?

[ryno2 1285]

42 minutes ago, TheMostKawaliioftheAlices said:

Why not.. GET A BOYFRIEND!? Heard they are ripe this season, I got mine

nice lie

[Stag 3229]

Gotta be the alpha male. Buy yourself chocolate.

[lemontide331 1615]

Just now, Sir K Andruske said:

Gotta be the alpha male. Buy yourself chocolate.

i really like chocolate

[----- 838]

If this is a meme, good job if not, that's sad

[lemontide331 1615]

6 minutes ago, Bannerlord said:

If this is a meme, good job if not, that's sad

this is not a meme and yea it is, i just feel like most unlucky guy..

[Ioannis 1480]

You can both share her? :)

[Kiiwi 1440]

25 minutes ago, poland said:

u female ?

Yeah I am a grill 

 

24 minutes ago, ryno2 said:

nice lie

Boi