Yamnothere

No, just theory, well backed up theory!

if you remember, Learna stark was raped and kidnapped by the Targaryen ergo creating 'roberts war', which lasted some years.

After this nedward returned with a kid, who nedward claimed was 'A bastard kid from a wetnurse from the war.'

ALTHOUGH, at points there was a tournement which Rhaegar gave the crown to Leana, something you would not do IF he planned to kidnap and kill her some few weeks later! No, they eloped.