I'm getting a tad annoyed of everybody and their mother having an idea to massivly change the server for "The better". All I want is to be in the company of some good RPers, and RP.
exactly.. that's what most others want as well, The server does need change and there is no reason to get annoyed at people who want to make things better.
Better is subjective and your experience on LotC is what you make of it. It doesn't matter if the admins change x to y or implement z, if you're not letting yourself have fun and instead try and nitpick things that can be changed , you'll never achieve "better".