this is frankdh, signing off.

[Samler 1564]

Bye frank

[JustMeMorgan 2065]

Ciao Frank, I hope the gender dysphoria gets better I feel you on that part o7

Pop in time to time for a life update or smthing you seemed like a good one out of uh most of lotc

[NightcastorKitty 2780]

Whats sad is you taking shots at a community even in your leaving post. Truth of the matter is that the Vale didn't do anything to you other than RP their characters. If you are still so upset over consequences because of your character's actions and people RPing their characters how they would have dealt with it, then yes you should definitely get away from the server. I hope you are able to become an artist and deal with your issues. But I suggest stop going after people who roleplayed. 

[WhatASithuation 210]

Definitely gunna miss ya frank. Be well and follow those dreams! You've always been a pleasure and i'll definitely be sending you an occasional DM to check up haha. 

[Guest]

18 hours ago, frankdh said:

 

 

I've played actively on this server since I was 18. I went through a lot -- friendships that sank or swam, the turbulence of out-of-character and in-character political dramas blurring together, and at one point, fighting through 2 and half years of gender dysphoria. I want to be an artist. I want to be a story teller. at 26, I want to chase those things. 

 

here's what I learned, in no particular order:

• you can learn a lot of social skills from lotc, including the power of empathy. don't dismiss that that opportunity.
• the world is only what the world is made of. people will just be people, don't hold them up on a pedestal.
• you can have some really special moments and opportunities on this server-- anything from leading a nation, to having a deep talk in your living room, can lead to some real magic between people.
• there will never be a titan as big as Oren. I'm very grateful to have experienced so much of it.
• when your imagination is too big for the boundaries of the server, it's time to go. don't put all your time and energy into something that won't love you back.
• don't feel shame when your feelings are hurt over lotc politics. the people who hurt you are real, the game is not.
• while it's great lotc has moved away from the bad behaviors it once harboured, be wary of cancel culture overtaking you. if your first reaction is outrage, you're not using your critical thinking skills.
• itdontmatta is the last good admin left.
• don't trust the Vale. the ones who smile the warmest are the ones to steal the most from you.
• Llir is the reason rukio has never been banned for this kind of behavior: 
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bye everyone. it's time to go.

 

 

FAX

 

$FRANK soaring

[Demonica 678]

It's pretty clear your warning of the Vale is unrelated to RP as others are trying to suggest. Something like that shouldn't be undermined or overlooked

Anyways, you've always been respectful and kind. Wishing you the best in your future endeavours king!

[winterblood 11181]

Love you, Frank - wish you the best!  If you got any socials where you post your art, send them to me on discord so I can support you <3

 

LotC's only good as a hobby, never let it get in the way of beneficial opportunities.  I'm also sorry about your experience with The Vale, I've heard far too many unpleasant experiences with the gatekeeping an cult-like mindset of that community [with ooc targeting, ooc blacklisting, and transphobia] - surprises me on how many people still stick around there.

[Stephensj 327]

Only interacted with you briefly but you were always a pleasure to be around. Thank you in particular for this post, it along with some of the replies got a pretty big hoot out of me. 

 

Cheers, and good luck in all your future endeavors :)

[Gridlock 1033]

You made me start a violent crusade against all moderators. A career I would dead seriously be proud of.

[DISCOLIQUID 2701]

One of the best, Frank, every time we talked was nice

[- Pastry 931]

Frank, you were a real one. Still are, but were before!

 

The pandemic -- and the republic that spawned in it -- would've been a total mess without your organizational skills and exceptional writing talent. Still boggles me you handled NL in Oren while still helping keep Hnor afloat.

 

may your glasses stay round and your magic stay funny

[Harald 2875]

Forever the Empress Anne I

 

o7

[ReveredOwl 5639]

context is they ran out of the adrian blob and i told them to go back inside, its quite clear what the inference is. Then said some weird things when i politely told them they can't change skins mid rp and run away

Edited September 2, 2023 by ReveredOwl

[Cryothane 809]

byebye frank, i hope life treats you well. im also happy ppl are kinda finally throwing some attention to rukio though.

On 8/31/2023 at 5:02 PM, frankdh said:

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 god forbid i draw an albino tho. LOL. ur smth else rukio
 

[subatomic 1497]

On 8/31/2023 at 6:02 PM, frankdh said:

 

• Llir is the reason rukio has never been banned for this kind of behavior: 
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LOOOOOL ok bro :3 :|