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  1. i remember one time i roleplayed with you and, other than your rp being extremely bad (literally would say yuore) you would constantly harass me in the falstaff chat whenever i was in there; for no real reason other than my character didn't want u to marry her son, to which i called you an annoying little rat infested *****. karma got u good.

     

  2. ya i did do that lol. i won't deny my history of being a ***** to people on this server. i owned up to my mistakes. i say what i think in the moment. i don't have a filter. but i dont see why u would critique me having a username (missannedrey) when if i recall correctly another player had a username like massagenist (a play on the word misogynist) without bringing that up. if u want to believe that is harming men on the server than i dont see why you wouldn't bring the other username up and while i don't know the whole story behind said players username, again it doesn't make sense to me to bring this up. also another few things) 1, why is everyone taking the first few lines so seriously i was joking 2. heres the screenshot with said player that many of u so desperately did not think was real thank u bye xx
  3. Hi. I’ve recently quit from LoTc, and it’s been one of the best things to happen to me. I feel freer, happier, nicer, kinder, sexier, beautifuler, my skin has cleared up, I now have 1200 in savings. My life is very good right now. Perfect, one might even say. Yet, every so often I find myself reminiscing on nights in the summer of 2020, when we’d stay up until 4am fighting against a raid, or romanticizing the Orenian and Haeseni courts– how to make them better, how to make them more fun. But I also remember the absolute loads of manure me and old friends would endure for many reasons. I remember one specific instance with a player who will not be named. For those of you who don’t know I’m a trans girl, and I was talking about being trans in the Oren discord in the summer months of 2020. Out of the blue I got a DM from this player calling me “secretly a man”. I, like any other good willed transsexual, sent a screenshot and video to a now quit moderator (in the discord and on LOTC). I wasn’t really met with anything other than “Oh :( that sucks :(“ and him possibly being kicked if player #1 did it again. I’ve also heard and seen many experiences of racism against my friends; and while I’m not qualified to speak on these experiences– as they weren’t mine– it does pose the question, why does LOTC allow this to happen? Why can these people get off scot free? Why don’t we take it more seriously? Why is this server so horrible to members of the LGBTQ+ community and to POC? I, and my old friends, have experienced a horrifying number of incidents similar to the one I’ve shared. Whether it’s being called the t slur, the f slur, some nasty– yet creative– unkind words. For a server who so desperately wants to seem woke and a “safe space”, you don’t do a good job at it. For those of you about to type a lovely little paragraph or 10 about how “lotc is open to everyone and you just want to be woke and none of these things ever happen!” or whatever, one I implore you to think about why you believe that and two, if you’re still really feeling that way you’re allowed to feel that way. I can’t change that, and I won’t argue with you about how these things really happen. To moderators and admins who truly do want to make a change regarding the issue of transphobia, homophobia and racism on lotc, I want to know why these issues (in my experience) have often led to a slap on the wrist or an apology from someone who doesn’t really mean it. I think this was long overdue. I didn’t want to write this for a long period of time because frankly, I believed moderation and administration just didn’t care that much. But it’s something that I know many people– trans, gay, black, indigenous, etc, have experienced on this god-forbidden game. I’m not expecting a nice conversation in regards to this, so that’s why I’m not going to respond to this that much- if at all. My mental health is already spiraling and I don’t need it to spiral any further. With my love, ydegirl
  4. always remember this server is a festering place for incels

    1. ydegirl

      ydegirl

      like lotc harbors a culture of racism, transphobia, homophobia, etc, and when the mods don't really do anything about it you start to remember why people quit the server in the first place

  5. A young blonde Waldenian rushes the missive to her mistress, Mathilde ( @slattador ) "Look, Missus Mathilde!" She exclaimed, shoving the missive into the woman's pale face.
  6. nub wae son or orc hating dwarf daughter

  7. never had a hamster but we had a bird that we were taking care of (it wasn't anyones pet bird it was just halloween and dying) so the cat ate it lol
  8. slay slem with yaass hair and pronouns

  9. whats a hot lotc take y'all have

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    2. Traveller

      Traveller

      doing nothing but endless cycle of tavern -> ball -> court rp is boring and CAs like kha/wonk/musin are underrated and it'd be cool and they would been seen more highly if they had their own communities like how elves have cnor, humans have oren/haense etc, but this obv wont happen bc they arent popular/played enough.

    3. tasty_cheesecake

      tasty_cheesecake

      we somehow have some of the stupidest yet most competent sets of mods rn. this speaks more to how insidious and evil prev sets of mods were.

    4. amyselia

      amyselia

      this game is about narratives. taking rp even a little serious ooc'ly is a huge waste of time/energy/emotion that could be spent on building new narratives when shit happens instead of hitching a fit

  10. omg u should join mi halfling family the shortheads!
  11. how do u rp so good + what tips would u give to ppl looking to expand their rp emotes?
  12. Name: Helene Temesch Age: 18 Race: Human Service: (nun, monk, priest, militant, etc.) Nun Where do you wish to serve?: Kingdom of Oren & Her Vassals OUT-OF-CHARACTER Username: fugaces Discord: at school -- will edit once i get home and can check
  13. NOo!h*i(@!(yu@()uiwosp)QJWAOIBFROVCLKBSOPGFQNJFDAC VIOLKSB VGPOSNEDGVB
  14. save the druids!!

  15. i dont rlly have a big preference, but i rlly liked the fashion aesthetics of 1700s oren so
  16. i hope lana del rey dies

    1. alexmagus

      alexmagus

      WHAT THE ****!

  17. whats a cool community to join...

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    2. Ibn Khaldun
    3. Fwied

      Fwied

      Just go be a nice halfling and be happy 

    4. UnusualBrit
  18. here we o again

  19. From a tilting rowboat just outside of Mardon... A teen girl, brown of hair and no older than nine-teen years pondered about her Haeseni friend; someone who she'd lost contact with as she hastily packed her things and fled. Now, atop a rowboat on a rather lazy lake, she'd eye his works that she managed to buy just before her arrival to Mardon. Memories smelling of sweet candy flooded into her nose as she remembered that lively conversation, their first and last.
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