why is cousin dating looked down on?

[lemontide331 1615]

as the title says: why is dating your cousin so heavily looked down upon?

 

before i got with my cousin, i was constantly looking for girls. i dated a few and i never felt that special connection. i did get with a girl once though but it was kinda forced. so i may have told this story before but ill summarize it here: a few month ago mine and my cousins parents went on holiday (an 18+ one is what i have figured) and neither of us wanted to live alone so we both lived together for a 2week period. during this time stuff happened and we ended up kissing etc. and by the end i told her i couldnt do it because our family would think its wrong and i wouldnt want to be looked at as a 'freak' you know?.

 

honestly, we just clicked, we had that connection, we loved each other and we both couldnt see ourselves with any1 else. it was pretty crazy. but yeah as i was saying, i did date this girl, she was cute and she really loved me i could tell, but everynight i'd just be thinking about my cousin, her smile, her sweet kisses, just everything. and in the end i just had to dump her. i could tell it really hurt her but i just couldnt control the feeling inside of me...

 

now, after this we ended up getting back together, at first we tried to keep it a secret but then it eventually came out as we were seen holding hands and kissing at a local park by another member in the family. at first my parents were kinda disgusted, my aunt and uncle immediately told her to stop dating me and stopped her from seeing me, but she refused so they ended up kicking her out, can u believe it? throwing out ur own daughter because of her love for someone else. unreal.

 

she came to my house, my parents were pretty upset about the situation, but as their son they didn't want to see my unhappy so they let it happen and allowed my cousin to stay at my house.

 

a few months have passed now and honestly, everything is just ******* amazing. my life is great, i feel on top of everything and just great really.ive never felt like this... ever...

 

but now id like to ask people here, do u have anything wrong with people dating other family members ( not sister - brother of course thats sooo wrong! but i dont feel cousin is, seems more.. distant i guess.) i think if u have such a good connection and you both truly love each other then just let it happen. i do understand why people can see it as unnatural though so i would recommend to people to at least try with a non related girl first.

 

thanks for reading and please share your thoughts im very interested!

 

 

 

[cj_scout 305]

[mmat 7460]

@Sythan

 

Thoughts?

[Narthok 10416]

@DPM When did you and Chuck start dating?

[Archipelego 2188]

dont care much. Meh. All my cousins are ugly as butt tho

[bungo 3965]

very informative will recommend! 

[Guest Guest]

I never once regretted marrying my cousin

 

[Balthasar 2497]

My whole country is built upon inbreeding. We're sort of fine herr, no Habsburg jaws or anything. But at the time only a few thousand people lived here, so you have to make do.

 

Personally, it's weird dating family.

 

If you didn't know you were family, and found out much much later it'd be a different story

[Geo 1415]

I can't imagine that it is, Chuck.  Your family's pretty good at it.

[__WaterFox__ 636]

First or second cousin would probably be pretty weird just for genetic reasons

[Kvasir 1121]

29 minutes ago, Balthasar said:

My whole country is built upon inbreeding. We're sort of fine herr, no Habsburg jaws or anything. But at the time only a few thousand people lived here, so you have to make do.

 

Personally, it's weird dating family.

 

If you didn't know you were family, and found out much much later it'd be a different story

are you sure you're okay

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Geo said:

I can't imagine that it is, Chuck.  Your family's pretty good at it.

roasted

[fighting evil by moonlight 455]

1 hour ago, Kinslayer said:

are you sure you're okay

i feel like i need to ask everyone in this thread if they're okay

[Sky 0]

kinda forcing your meme threads at this point bud

[Lechian Lord 1027]

sounds like the start of a erotica intro