Hey matt!
It seemed that there's been a few misunderstandings here. Unfortunately I was away during most of the altercation and couldn't handle everything entire, so I'll clarify a few things.
When this began, you did have visitor in Oren discord, but you seemed concerned that you wished for more. While it was a valid point, it was communicated through berating us/trolling us in the channel and post memes in dms when we did not assign you further roles, and then messaged other players when we didn't respond, even when we had done nothing to incite conflict. I won't be posting what you said to me or the other players you were messaging, but this eventually led to a mod believing you needed to take a break since you began to flood the channel (neither Lion or I kicked you as you do claim).
You weren't banned at all, (I've just checked the audit logs), rather the mod thought you should take a break given the pretty bad remarks you were giving to the admins and other players. I can't speak on the other experiences you've had, but it seemed like these are the main qualms you've raised.
If you'd like, I am completely open to chatting more about this in dms, whenever you'd like. I can also toss you an invite link whenever.